Surviving an Affair

As I ask around to friends and family, “What topics should I put on my blog”, one topic has come up that is of such critical importance that I have to tackle it right away.

The topic is "Surviving an Affair"

  • Can you survive an affair?
  • Should you survive an affair?
  • Why would you want to?

But I’m not a psychologist; I’m not a marriage counselor. Where would I go for help?  I go to my trusted online marriage counselor aide.  The web site www.marriagebuilder.com .

Of course on that site there is a great article “How to Survive Infidelity” . In that article Dr Harley discusses the issues of:

Coping with Infidelity…

  • Part 1: How Do Affairs Begin?
  • Part 2: How Should Affairs End?
  • Part 3: Restoring the Marital Relationship.
  • Part 4: Overcoming Resentment.
  • Four Rules to Guide Marital Recovery After an Affair.
  • What to Do with an Unfaithful Husband.
  • What to Do with an Unfaithful Wife.
  • Escaping the Jaws of Infidelity:
  • How to Avoid an Affair.
  • The Lover’s Perspective on Infidelity.
  • How Can I recover My Sexual Desire for My Husband After My Affair?
  • Infidelity on the Internet.
  • Can’t We Just Forgive and Forget?
  • What to Do When You (or Your Spouse) Become Pregnant with a Lover’s Child.

Guys, I can’t do it any better than Dr. Harley, so I am just here pointing to the best source I know. Now some of you may need to do the hard work of reading this and taking action. Remember the adage, “Readers are Leaders”. Be a reader. Be a leader.

Here are some books to read on the subject. "His Needs Her Needs" will transform your marriage even if it is already good.



Do it for your spouse. Do it for your kids. Do it for you.

Take action now….

Have a great day

Wayne Moran

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About waynem

As a Minnesota based photographer and artist I have been greatly influenced by the Upper Midwest. I focus my skills and energies on portraits, landscapes, cityscapes, architectural and fine art work. My best work comes from images first painted in my mind. I mull over a prospective image for weeks or months, seeing it from different angles and perspectives, then finally deciding what to capture. The result is images that deeply touch people's emotions and powerfully evoke memories and dreams. My images are used commercially by companies and organizations ranging from Financial Services firms, mom and pop Ice Cream shops and The Basilica of St Mary to communicate their shared vision and values. Book and magazine publishers have featured my images on their covers. My photographs also grace and enhance the decor of many fine homes.
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